Be yourself in everything that you do. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. This is your life and only your life, all other opinions outside of your own do not matter. It’s always good to reach out for help, but in the end you have to be confident in yourself and follow your own path even if it contradicts what others views and advice is. If it doesn’t sit well with you, don’t follow it. Follow what feels right to you. In order to do this you need to have a close connection with yourself. Bring your energy back within and start giving yourself more power over your own life. Follow your heart, your gut, your intuition, and God will steer you in the right path.